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Often referred to as the ‘Bonnie & Clyde Syndrome.’ In this instance the Passive Hybristophile will often contact someone in prison - someone that they only know by reputation in the media.As in the case of Ian Huntley, the notorious Soham killer.

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We read the sensational stories in the Press which tend to veer between pity and disdain.

Are they lonely creatures in search of emotional dependence from a captive audience?

I thought to myself, he's probably got so many women writing to him, he'll throw it away because it doesn't mean a thing.

And I'll go on being a lost soul." On the other side of the pond, psychopathic mass murderer Charles Manson recently called off the wedding to his pen pal, Afton-Elaine Burton after discovering that she was secretly ordering a glass coffin for her intended, with a view to charging spectators after his death.

(PA) Yet even in platonic cases the lines can get blurred.

Georgina Rigby was 28 and working in the field of drug misuse when an inmate contacted her.Cavendish believes it to be a highly complex issue and agrees that major factors to consider are dependency and control; “Dependence works both ways - financial for many prisoners, particularly those who don't have family ties, as well as emotional.” With regards to the type of women who write to prisoners; “I'll be honest and say that a fair few of the female correspondents are lonely women who often have body-image concerns (many of those whose photos I've seen tend to be overweight.) They feel perhaps that a prisoner is likely to be less judgmental and more appreciative of any support - emotional and/or financial.” For these women, connecting with a man who is locked up for the majority of the day with little else to occupy his time, you’d be forgiven for assuming that the inmate has no choice but to remain faithful.However as Cavendish observes, prisoners can benefit fiscally from these courtships; “I’ve known male inmates who have several pen pals, and they live a very comfortable life inside on the regular postal orders or cheques that get sent in.Alex Cavendish, Social Anthropologist and former prison inmate, says; “In theory, a percentage of all outgoing letters are randomly checked by the censor's department in each prison (usually 10%).However, if the inmate has been convicted of domestic violence, a sexual offence or stalking/harassment, then all letters are supposed to be read.” a report released only this year on population in UK prison Most of us struggle to identify with the type of woman who would actively search for a partner in prison.Their actions provide a much welcome lifeline, a window to the outside world.

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