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She is at a place in her life in which she knows whether she wants more children, or whether she wants to have any kids at all, regardless of if you’ve figured that out for yourself.

If she has kids and you break up, you will also mourn the loss of her children from your life.

I’ve always found the term “May/December” to be somewhat rude, as “May/August” or “May/September” feels more apt.

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Is there something intrinsic to gay culture that is conducive to age gaps between partners?

And what is it about older women that’s so damn appealing to me?

She is more set in her ways, or her life is established to a degree that lacks the flexibility needed to build something new with someone in a different stage of life.

Your interests, or your friend group, may not resonate with her.

The public erasure of same-sex couples can be bad enough, but it’s even worse when someone refers to your date as your sister or your mom.

How about we make a new rule: Just like you should never ask a woman about her pregnancy unless she tells you she’s pregnant, you should never assume two women are biologically related unless they introduce themselves as such.

The thing is, I find the above qualities to be attractive in a human of any age.

I’ve never set out to intentionally find an older woman to date, but I’ve felt drawn to women who are comfortable in their own skin and, more often than not, this is connected to how long they’ve lived.

My first girlfriend, albeit an old soul, was younger than me.

Since then, I’ve had a handful of relationships with women 10-15 years older than me, and two partners who were more than 20 years my senior.

Given that lesbians overcome normative expectations just to be themselves, it’s unsurprising that there would be open-mindedness within gay culture about challenging other taboos such as dating across generations.

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