Being too accommodating in a relationship

Ok, lets start imagining a relationship where the boy is too nice and girl is normal, straight to forward.In the beginning of the relation the girl would be too happy that she got such nice partner and the boy will do things continuesly to impress his girl and make her feel special every moment .” It makes you much more mysterious and actually makes it seem like you have a life outside of your significant other.

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And, well…that definitely didn’t work out for very long.

Once I started putting the pieces together, I figured out that I was just too available for the men in my life.

It’s fine to be intrigued — like you’re on the verge of being interested — but don’t let yourself get totally sold too fast.

In other words, don’t be ready to have his babies after date 3. So, Halle Kaye Halle Kaye is the author of the insightful, inspirational and hilarious dating guide for women Maybe He's Just an Asshole: Ditch Denial, Embrace Your Worth, and Find True Love!

Texting him multiple times a day and chatting about his day seems not only too available, but slightly desperate as well.

If you’re busy with your own life—as you should be—then you shouldn’t have time to text 50 times a day. It’s Friday night at 4 PM, and he calls *which you pick up on the first ring, of course* and asks if you want to do dinner at 6.Take it from me: read these signs and change them ASAP—if you want to make something work. If you’re constantly saying yes to everything your new squeeze asks or wants to do, then you’re too available. Don’t you just want to curl up on the couch and watch a movie, instead of going to some lame car show? Honestly, this sounds more desperate than you being nice.Instead, say a quick, “Oh sorry, what did you need?Yeah, it’s no fun, but you graciously reply back *immediately, I may add*, “No biggie! Letting your significant other reschedule things at the last minute without fuss doesn’t mean you’re “understanding.” It means you’re too available and don’t mind the random shift in plans.Let him know his canceled plans are off-putting; you are not a doormat.Even though you already threw in a pizza and had prepared to lie on the couch *in PJs, stuffing your face* you excitedly say, “Of course,” turn off the oven, and head straight to the shower.

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